Shemeka Laker: What about this toxic...pretty good, huh?Sick stays with sick. She likes your suffering. And you stay because...?Right! Because of something very rotten from your family and childhood that you don't want to touch. Some gangrene you shield, protect from getting help. If a wife was being abused, you'd never say she should stay. Abused spouses stay because of their own sickness. There is something telling you that you don't deserve better. Something sick.Get the hint? Get professional help. This is beyond you.
Carmelina Enoch: If you are that unhappy leave her. It sounds like there is no reason to hang around. Sex is an important part of marriage. If you are forced to go with out it that's a marriage breaker..
Sook Hershkowitz: Disagree immensely. There are many different kinds of love. I love my children, i love my family, i love my friends, but i'm IN love w/my husband.making babies is instinct, period.ya know it seems like this is probably the w! orst section when it comes to flat out ridiculous thumbs downing. absolutely NO reason for it on this type of question! wtf is wrong w/you ppl?
Jorge Gerrero: wow. that really sux, dude. better get used to dating rosie palm and her five little sisters.
Sharron Salin: And this is your problem in life? spoiled brat sounds like to me. do your own laundry and not one or two pieces at a time but a full load. You are old enough to start taking care of yourself, you are not a baby but you sound like one here
Jess Grizzel: I feel bad for you.It sucks, too, because it's not your real mom, so usually, you already feel a disconnection with the whole thing.Here's what you do: Wash your own clothes, by yourself, that way she won't ruin any of your clothes by mixing darks with whites, or putting bleach in when it's not a white load. If she gets pissy at you, be like, "I'm ******* doing my own laundry! What, is nothing good enough that I do? So, why don't you go ba! ck to doing, whatever it is that you're doing, and let me get ! on with my chores, voluntarily!" If she goes, and whines to your dad, tell your dad straight up, "Dad I'm doing laundry. She won't let me do my laundry with your clothes, so what, am I just supposed to wear dirty underwear everyday?"Tell him, "I'm not doing drugs or drinking, I'm doing laundry!!"...Show more
Ardath Templer: Let her go, it may be the best thing for you both. As said sex is secondary, what she is doing is wrong by any wifely means
Bennie Lantgen: No! Sex exists so we can reproduce. Sex is physical. Love is emotional. You can make a decision to be in love without having children.
Ardell Luy: Have you talked to your dad? Just throw your laundry in with hers. Or do the laundry separately. Or take it to a laundromat or your mom's.
Davida Gisriel: Hang in there man, marriage is rough. I can't imagine this. Have you tried talking to her about this? It might be a sensitive subject, but it might give light to underlying issues that may be a fa! ctor. Marriage counseling is nothing to be ashamed of. I applaud you for your strength in not cheating.
Mark Villifana: talk to her, ask her "if we do our laundry together why doesn't mine ever get done? If you would like me to do my own laundry i would be more than happy to but you would need to show me how, otherwise is there something i should be doing so my laundry gets washed?" If she can't handle this question like an adult then i would bring your father into this as a mediator so this argument does not escalate.
Renato Abatiell: I agree it did when first I read it. But I totally see your point now. Bless your whittle heart. Its gonna work out okay. Don't sweat don't trip.
Derick Kinnard: Ask your dad how to use the washer. It doesn't take a brain surgeon to use one. You should be able to do it without someone showing you. They are pretty easy. Then just do your own. Or bring all your laundry to your mom's and do it there (not sure why that one was h! ard to figure out).-Connor...Show more
Sunshine Holets: emotional! attatchment is humans' way of keeping the species alive.love my parents: security and safeltylove your kids: ensure the new generation makes it to adulthoodattraction/sex: babies:)love: just being around your family so long makes you love them/comfortthats why people are sad when a person dies; their life needs to reajust which means vulnerability, and well, that person was a fixation in thier life and a reminder of their own mortalityso god: a reason for individuals to stay aliveif you didnt believe in god, what would YOU do?we are complex, more so than the animals that are primarily driven my instincts. we have the ability to control our animalistic tendencies to a bit (most animals kill) but they are there, underneath integrated into our behaviors and beliefs.the god-thingtigers can get depressed and stop eating in zoos, because thier environments are so...well they live in cages, thats their world.we are more complex. we NEED the idea of an afterlife. its that simple? ! idk but just think of it as layers.you like the way oranges taste, because the vitamin c/acidity levels make you healthier, and feel better afterwords. so you associate the two feelings. ok bad example but ya.the "butterflies" we feel is apprehension, adrenaline (nervousness), and a million thingsbut it doesnt matter right? love is a beutiful delusion, it satisfies all our needs: sex/safelty, attachment, and...the new need that has developed, probably due to our more elevated individual reflection (we can think about thinking animals cant...i think)....the need to have a reason to livebasically wtf who knows?????????????????
Gerardo Greist: Her boyfriend just cant seem to get over it. He texts her constantly threatening her and accusing her of being a lesbian. He stalks her house, leaves messages on our voicemail at work calling us names and whatnot; but he never addresses the fact that he vandalized her house and stole her car, broke into her house, threatened my lif! e, and hit her car as we were driving and mentally terrorized her for t! he past few weeks. Now he wants to forget about it as just a "misunderstanding". What can we do?
Arleen Bussing: And when we do have sex she just lies there and waits for me to finish - WTF. Overall my marriage is toxic - she curses me out and calls me names all the time. I feel like I don't really want to be with her anymore but feel bad because I worry what will she do on her own - and I know this is not a reason to be married. I know I would be happier with someone but I know if I stay married I will not be. I need some advise here. I am 33 and I feel like a virgin and I have been married for 7 years. Life without sex sucks and I need it - I never cheated because I am not like that but I am walking on egg shells here. Please help!!!
Tom Romer: That's what 911 is for. You need to report him every time he does something. Get a restraining order against him.
Norma Marsalis: This is not a marriage and divorce question. Where is your father in all ! of this? Have you spoken to him?
Alden Sabio: To an extent, yes. Attraction (leading onto love) is programmed into us by Mother Nature to ensure we reproduce. When we fall/are in love our brains release chemicals which make love feel addictive. The reason for this? To ensure we find a mating partner. Other creatures don't experience love like humans because they are not as advanced as us. Many people don't want children these days but that is because we have the ability to reason and make logical and well thought out choices, as opposed to simply going though the motions or simply following our instincts. What we feel towards our families is as a result of attachment. We stay near our families as protection, like a baby animal would in the wild. Everything we experience is down to chemicals in our brains, and it all stems back to reproduction and survival of the fittest.
Mercedez Trabue: The sex is secondary to the way she treats you and makes you feel. Life i! s too short to have someone make you feel less than valued. She'll get! by without you. Might be what she needs, too.
Lupe Sancen: No. The reason love exists is that it is not good for man to be alone.
Damion Oleksa: Two Words: Marriage CounselingIf she refuses to go, you go. get some help for yourself. You need to find out why you are allowing her to treat you this way. Was she like this when you married her? When did this behavior start? Go see someone who can help you sort this all out.
Herma Ellebrecht: she needs to get a restraining order on him
Piedad Bassiti: What a *****! I hope she doesn't treat you like crap all the time. Talk to your dad and inform him of the problem.
Scot Sepulbeda: Is it possible you could wash your clothes while she's at work? Or offer to do the laundry and make sure all of yours get washed- and some of hers if they fit. That may be another reason, that all the clothes you wanted washed wouldn't fit in the machine? Water prices are cheaper after certain hours (after 7pm in t! he Toronto area) but she may not know that, so tell her that if she washes her clothes after then, she could save a lot....Show more
Hyo Hardell: report it to 911. This guy has issues and you don't know what he is capable of doing. You don't want to be another story on your local TV station.
Byron Fortmann: as long as no no one else is involved things will work out you do have love for each other so stick with it it will sort itself out
Clementina Collelo: I would talk to your dad about what you are dealing with. You will likely have some growing pains with new members of the family trying to figure out their roles. It is a problem and it is obviously important to you so you need to let him know. Don't tell him in front of her or it will likely explode, because she will feel like you are targeting her. Just make some time and sit down with your dad and don't use mean words. Just tell him that you can either let her do it, or you can do it, but y! ou need it to get done. Ask him if there is some way that you can cont! ribute to the problem by helping in another area, or if you can do something around the house to help with the cost of the water bill. Best of luck to you. Hope this helps....Show more
Andre Winegar: To the person who called me spoiled: I said I would do my own laundry, I would love it. I want to move out when I'm around 18 so of course I need to know how to do it. I do a full load when I did do it. I just an scared because she grounded me and stuff. My dad ignores it, sometimes he'll throw one of my shorts or a shirt in with his because he needs his washed but that's it.
Agustina Stimmel: talk to your dad
Cedric Grimstead: So inform ur dad of the issue and ask HIM if u can do ur own laundry and how to work the washing machine! If he don't know how, ask him to talk to ur stepmother. Actually, bring them both together and talk about it!
Justin Casten: no sex = no marriage leave her or find a sex partner, women become toxic after marriage as it can n! ever live up to their fantasy expectations , women love WEDDINGS not marriage
Shane Getler: Wow, that sucks. I guess you'll have to do all of it when you go to your mom's house.
Robbie Starchman: Call the police and have a retraining order taken out against him, that'll show him to back off or go to jail and become big bubba's biatch
Barton Sease: What she does on her own is not your problem. You need to take responsibility for your own life not feel guilty about her. What would she be doing if you had never gotten married? She would have survived somehow I'm sure.
Stan Conley: That is absolutely not true. Love isn't about procreating - love is about sharing life with a partner you truly care about, support and want to be with. Having babies is just what people do when they get bored.
Carli Watterson: Disagree.I never wanted to reproduce with my dad.
Wally Perrien: Not really. As far as we can tell, few other creatures experience lo! ve, yet they all reproduce. Love comes in a variety of forms -- I love ! my friends, I love my family, and I love my boyfriend. I don't want to reproduce with my siblings or parents, yet I love them.
Michel Mccaulley: I know that some people who are in "Love" don't reproduce but most do want to have kids, BUT in general Love exist so babies can be made?
Rosalyn Olivera: WOW! You've got a long way to go ................
Antone Youla: Take all your clothing to your moms house, than pack only what you will need on your days there. Sorry sweetie
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